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Is your sex life feeling stale?\u00a0<\/p>\n
Stagnant?\u00a0<\/p>\n
Boring?\u00a0<\/p>\n
Maybe none of the above, but you\u2019re still wanting to branch out and try something new. Bring some excitement into your sexual domain.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Well, then we\u2019ve got some tips for you.<\/p>\n
Primal sex can mean different things to different people.<\/p>\n
Essentially it\u2019s getting past the human idea of what you should and shouldn\u2019t do, and moving from a more natural, uninhibited place.<\/p>\n
Society plays a big role in how we behave in our sex lives. Depending on what you were exposed to or experienced, you might have all sorts of moral and ethical ideas around sex \u2013 what\u2019s appropriate, what\u2019s expected, what you should or shouldn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n
All of these things add up and tend to make an impact on our sex lives. People with vaginas tend to experience fewer orgasms, feel more self-conscious during sex, and may feel the need to prioritize their partner\u2019s pleasure over theirs.<\/p>\n
Primal sex is the antidote to that. It helps knock out all those ideas society has put into your mind, and gets you out of your head and into your body.<\/p>\n
Primal sex and playfulness go hand in hand. They both bring you back to a very raw human state. One where you can feel on a deeper level, experience more pleasure, and just have fun!<\/p>\n
Intrigued?<\/p>\n
One good indicator that you need more primal sex is that you\u2019re reading this.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Didn\u2019t mean to make you blush, but you know we have a point!<\/p>\n
These are some other signs your sex life could use more primal playfulness:<\/p>\n
Now that you have the what, let\u2019s talk about the how.<\/p>\n
This is all nice in theory, but how do you actually practice playful primal sex?<\/p>\n
We\u2019ve got you covered.<\/p>\n
You fill in the blank.<\/p>\n
Do you know what really gets you in your primal state? Channelling some sort of animal.<\/p>\n
Before you get started, think of an animal you want to emulate.<\/p>\n
Maybe it\u2019s the ferocity of a tiger and you get a little wild with scratching.<\/p>\n
Or you\u2019re thinking of sharks and feeling like doing some extra biting.<\/p>\n
Or you think of dogs that will wrestle at any time and hump each other unabashedly.\u00a0<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t even have to tell your partner you\u2019re doing this. But it might be fun if you do!<\/p>\n
This might be a no-brainer, but an awesome way to be more playful in the bedroom is to break up your routine.<\/p>\n
Try having sex in a new place, look up some new positions, incorporate some wild new toys like a sex swing, add in more dirty talk.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Ask your partner what would feel new and exciting, and tell them what\u2019s on your mind!<\/p>\n
Playfulness doesn\u2019t just turn on automatically once you start getting down to business.\u00a0<\/p>\n
It\u2019s something that\u2019s practised regularly. Especially as it becomes less available to us as adults.<\/p>\n
One of the best ways to have a more playful sex life is by playing with your partner in non-sexual settings.\u00a0<\/p>\n
This could mean getting outdoors and having an adventure, doing something that gets your adrenaline pumping, engaging in witty banter, playing lighthearted pranks on each other, splashing around in some water, or literally playing a game.<\/p>\n
Foreplay starts way before you get to the bedroom. You\u2019d be amazed at how much of a difference this makes!<\/p>\n
While the play is often better with an *ahem* friend, it can be just as juicy when you\u2019re by yourself!<\/p>\n
You can still get primal and playful while masturbating or having solo sex?<\/p>\n
How you may ask?<\/p>\n
Just like life outside the bedroom, your sex life has ebbs and flows.<\/p>\n
Sometimes it might feel soft and sensual. Other times it might feel kinky and exciting. Or deep and tantric.\u00a0<\/p>\n
The point is, you might not always feel up for play, and that\u2019s totally ok.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019re feeling stuck in the playfulness department, maybe a little push in that direction would help, as long as it\u2019s still within your boundaries.<\/p>\n
At the end of the day, sex is a release and a way of connecting, but it\u2019s also a practice.\u00a0<\/p>\n
If this primal sex stuff is feeling foreign to you, give it a few tries. While practice doesn\u2019t make perfect when it comes to sex, it can certainly make it more enjoyable.\u00a0<\/p>\n
If it\u2019s not for you, it\u2019s not for you \u2013 that\u2019s ok too!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n